Wednesday, May 28, 2025

Travel Tip #8: Take a friend!

I used to travel solo.

Now I rarely travel on my own.

This might be the biggest change to my travel habits since acquiring my disability.

Three women -- me, Polly, and Jen -- at an outdoor café table. We're all smiling in the sunshine.

Back at Mile 21, when I was just learning to walk again, longtime friends Jen and Polly convinced me -- and all my new equipment -- to take a road trip to Maine


A view out the front windshield of the car as we drive over a bridge.  In the foreground are Jen's hands on the steering wheel.

We stuffed the trunk with a zillion supplies:

shower chair,
prosthetic pieces,
crutches,
medications,
shrinkers,
first-aid creams,
alcohol spray,
and a portable DVD player I watched at night when I couldn't sleep.

On that trip, I felt exposed and vulnerable in ways I had never imagined.

The front of a large tractor trailer, as it passed our car, taken from my passenger side window.
Like passing TRUCKS on the highway...

...adapting to a hotel room, walking with an ice cream cone, and sweating out of my prosthesis, exhausted, on the way back from dinner.

But I also felt -- for the first time -- a freedom that I thought was lost from my life forever.

I was traveling.

Me, standing on a dock, holding the railing, wearing sandals and getting ready to board a tour boat.
And my C-Leg was at sea!
(Or Casco Bay, anyway.)

Since that milestone trip, I've learned the value of not going it alone.  

Friends are great in case of emergency and, of course, for helping with bags.  But they also boost our confidence and help us laugh at mishaps.  (Which, for me, still happen many times a day!)

Most of all, taking a friend along reminds us that we ALL have strengths and challenges.

That we're all adaptive travelers in our own way.

Walk on,
Rebecca 

P.S. Read the postcard from Mile 21 here: The Way Life Should Be.

1 comment:

  1. Such an uplifting post, great message as always, thanks, Rebecca :)

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